We are living in a digital world and a lot of women have turned to online dating to meet men. Well, guess what? You can still meet the right man socially. You just have to know where to go.
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How to Meet Men without Online Dating Part 2
If you have not watched Part 1 of How to Meet Men Without Online Dating, that’s a show you need to go listen to first and then come back and meet me here. Part one covers three things you should do before you actually go out into the world and meet these men socially. It’s very, very important, an important precursor to everything that we’re talking about today.
Full disclosure: I’m a huge fan of online dating.
I love online dating for my clients. In fact, I set up all of my clients in an online dating experience because it is one of the easiest ways to meet men and build the romantic courage that you need. But socially meeting men is just as important.
These two mediums of dating work perfectly together and it’s something that you should consider doing. If you need help with the online dating part, because maybe it left a bad taste in your mouth, maybe you got crickets or crazy guys, I can help with that. You can check out my program, E-rresistibility, and get the first two video chapters for free.
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Let’s circle back to today’s topic.
How to Meet Men without Online Dating
There are three places that are great venues for meeting the men of your dreams. I say men, but it can be a man too. It depends. We do Mantourage Dating™ here at HaveHimYourWay.com. Mantourage Dating™ is dating more than one man at a time before you meet your forever man.
There is a huge possibility that you’re gonna have many amazing men to choose from as you embrace Mantourage Dating™
No. 1, Set ups / blind dates
I know all of us has heard horror stories of being set up and/or going on blind dates, Despite these stories, I still want you to know that this is a great way to meet men. Especially after you go through the information in Part 1 of how to meet men without online dating.
There is a specific way that I want you to address your friends about being set up, which I cover in another show that you can find at HaveHimYourWay.com/summertime.
There’s a way that I want you to tell your friends about what you’re looking for that’s going to help them to set you up with more qualified men.
I love blind dates. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with blind dates. (Yes I have a very adventurous personality so the idea meeting someone brand new is fun for me) I don’t have a problem going into a blind date and enjoying myself.
Still I know for a lot of women that the idea of a blind date is extraordinarily uncomfortable. So if the idea of a blind date makes you break out in hives, you can instead request and set up a group date.
HERE’S HOW YOU DO IT:
Your friends want to introduce you to somebody, tell her/him:
“Hey, thank you. I would love that but I would feel more comfortable, if we go on a group date instead, because I’m a little, well a lot –nervous.”
Group dates are fun too and it would take a lot of pressure off for those of you women who may be super uncomfortable with the whole blind date scenario.
No. 2, Conferences and events
This can be work conferences but I’m not talking about work conferences where you’re exclusively with the people that you work directly. I’m talking about where you mix and mingle with other companies —all that good stuff.
Other events, especially events that you are very passionate about that involve a co-ed audience are a great as well. I’ve heard a lot about people meeting the love of their life at Tony Robbins events. Which is pretty cool if you’re into that kind of thing.
There’s a lot of opportunity to connect and explore different pieces of your personality with people at these events because you oftentimes have a lot in common and a lot of fun stuff to talk about.
Conferences and events are a definite Romantic Fairy Godmomma two thumbs up for meeting high quality men that you’ll be wildly attracted to.
No. 3, Dating events
When i say dating events, I mean speed dating, meet ups, match events, all different types of events that are specifically designed for singles. It can even be in church. It can be your singles events at church.
I do acknowledge that for a lot of women, dating events have a specific negative connotation much like online dating. Not as much as they did years and years ago because they’re much more normalized in our society, but I know that that residual negative connotation still exist for some some of you.
I want you to look at this from a completely different perspective.
The truth is is that dating events are a great place to meet high quality men.
You wanna know why?
Because every one of those people has raised their hand to say: “Hey, I’m interested in dating. I’m interested in seeing if there’s a really great romantic outcome here.”; so , unlike other social situations, there is not a guessing game.
You know that this person talking to you is most likely very interested in seeing what the romantic possibilities are and if there’s a mutual interest. That alone can take a lot of pressure off of you. What we don’t want to do when we’re going into these social situations, learning to meet men, and experience men differently is to add a bunch of additional unnecessary pressure.
I want you to become an Adored Woman because that’s what we do here at HaveHimYourWay.com. We teach you to become an Adored Woman, to Mantourage Date™, to date more than one man at a time until you find your forever man or indefinitely if you so choose. I want you to really experience what it feels like to connect to men in a different way. In a way that is much more on your terms than you have ever experienced before.
Which is why I mentioned online dating at the beginning of the show to help you build your romantic courage. It is absolutely imperative that you start showing up socially as the Adored Woman that you already are which will make it very easy to meet the man of your dreams. By the way I met my man, my husband socially. We’ve been together now for 10 years.
Okay Lovergirl, it’s time for me sprinkle some fairy dust and disappear giving you time take everything we discussed and heating up your lovelife.
I will see you next time. Here’s to you, having him your way.
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