Screw Cinderella, Meet Cynthia…
I’m curious… are you settling for scraps of a man’s attention or no romantic attention at all?
If you are…no worries… I totally get it, and I used to do it too.
Honestly, the number of women single or not these days doing just that is mind boggling. But then again, who can really blame us?
It’s not like we have a fairy godmother that is going to show up and poof make us magically adorable for prince charming to sweep us off our feet. It’s highly unlikely, (although I know you secretly still might be hoping it will) that your tall dark and gorgeous prince is going to swoop in plant that kiss on you that will permanently drag you out of your romantic slumber.
Unfortunately… Fairy tales don’t play well in a modern dating landscape. Something I learned the hard way, over & over. It was physically and emotionally exhausting and eventually numbing. Bottom line if you keep waiting and waiting, well you will get more waiting. For me something had to give. Little did I know, it was me.
So let me just tell you what does work…
If you want ground shaking, earth shattering, orgasmic, heart warming, lasting romance in your life well then you’ll have to create your own fairy tale and tell Cinderella and her oh so patient girlfriends such as Rapunzel and Snow White to piss off ;o)
Meet Cynthia…
Cynthia is getting married this week, and I couldn’t be more excited. You see Cynthia has a very special place in my heart. She showed up in my very first Dating Class a little curious to how she got there in the first place. In fact she decided before she’d even think about joining the class that she was going ask me the hard questions. Frankly she had lots of reservations and rightfully so.
When Cynthia walked through my doors it had been awhile since she had dated, primarily because she couldn’t care less about having a man in her life. And why should she? She’s beautiful, intelligent, successful, has great friends, a wonderful family, and dating had been a much less than pleasant experience years before.
Why screw it up with a man?
In fact… that is exactly what she asked me… “Jenn, my life is good, why would I want to take this course?”
To which I replied… “I have no doubt that your life is wonderful in many ways, but I also know that you wouldn’t be here right now if some piece of you wasn’t longing for a man in your life.”
Cynthia took my course… in fact she was our Valedictorian. Her transformation was mesmerizing.
In her words…
“I became more open to the possibility of romantic love without the horrible fear of loss, being vulnerable, and being hurt. I know now that the love is sooooo worth the risk. Specifically, I was open enough and fearless enough to being set up and then dating my current boyfriend who has enhanced my life and consistently shows me what love is. I use the skills Jenn taught me still in this relationship, beyond just the emotional change I needed to get in it in the beginning.”
From Skeptical Single to Beautiful Bride, Cynthia uncovered and designed her very own fairy tale. You can too.
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