#FairyDustTV Episode 1, Mantourage Dating And Why Smart, Professional Women Do It
Learn the basics of Mantourage Dating for single women and why all smart, professional, single women should do it in order to find true love.
#FairyDust TV Video Transcript:
Mantourage Dating for Single Women
Mantourage Dating™, at its essence, means that you’re dating more than one man at a time until you find your forever man, or indefinitely if you so choose.
Now I know that many would argue with me about the moral aspects of dating more than one man at a time. So I want to make it clear, I will not waste time arguing with anyone in regards to moral code.
My personal belief is that we women have the right to choose our own magical dating experiences. And when we do we open floodgates for love.
For me it started in 2006, when I decided to divorce my then husband. This is after 3 years of being married. We were constantly fighting. I also discovered that he was unfaithful — highly likely that it happened several times. We even went to counseling, but we couldn’t make it work. So finally I decided to call it quits.
At that point in time I also decided that if I was going to do love again, I was going to do it on my terms, because I was tired of the crappy terms I was getting.
I had no idea exactly why I had such crappy relationships because I consider myself a really smart woman.
As I reentered the dating landscape, I knew this time I had to do it differently. I took it upon myself to not run into exclusivity. In my past I incessantly tried and really wanted to have this forever relationship right away; but obviously it wasn’t working for me.
This is how Mantourage Dating™ came about. I started dating multiple men and having these magical experiences. I’ll be honest with you. The clients I’ve worked with since then– they totally topped all the magical experiences that I’ve had.
However it was a great starting point. And using those experiences I met an incredible man that I’m still with today — nine years later.
Before we talk about what Mantourage Dating means for you, we need to address what Mantourage dating is not.
1. Mantourage Dating does not mean that you have to sleep with multiple men.
This is a very personal choice: one that should only be made in integrity with who you are, what you want and also always using protection.
Personally, I was unable to have several sexual relationships. I just couldn’t handle it emotionally. So, I didn’t go there while I was Mantourage Dating.
I have several clients who are the same way, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t. It depends on who you are and where you’re at as a woman –as long as you’re with integrity with yourself.
2. Mantourage Dating doesn’t mean you have to lie to men, cheat on men, have to be out of integrity with men, or play games with them.
3. Mantourage Dating doesn’t mean that you’re constantly breaking men’s hearts either.
It does however mean much, much more than that.
It’s a special place that you get to choose to be romantically as a woman.
Think about this…
I base my entire practice with women on a quote from my main man Rumi:
“Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
What should you take from it?
Rumi is talking to me, and telling you too:
–Just stop what you’re doing for a second because you’re screwing this up.
Stop looking for love. Love is already all around you.
You need to go internally and figure out what’s keeping you from experiencing the love that’s already around you.–
This is where Mantourage Dating comes in.
Mantourage Dating™ is going to give you the opportunity to see love in a whole new light, to experience love in a way that you haven’t been able to do before.
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Why successful, professional, single women should do this
If you are a woman in your mid-thirties up into your forties – this is the sweet spot for dating. The age of women that I really love to work with.
Most of the time when women come back into the dating scene, they are obsessed – absolutely obsessed with what’s going on in HIS head. Constantly trying to figure him out. If they can just figure out what he’s thinking, they’ve got the upper hand, and he’s gonna fall madly in love with them.
It’s all candy coated crap.
It doesn’t work because men are not wired to handle that kind of attention from you. If you’re constantly trying to figure him out, you’ve already blown relationship potential and you’re driving yourself crazy at the same time.
Mantourage Dating, on the other hand, will give you the opportunity to see different men in different light, allow your romantic soul to start to relax and understand that at the core of everything, you were made to be an adored woman.
We women spend a lot of time, a lot of effort and a lot of energy on creating everything we want. We’re now capable of doing things we never fathomed possible a hundred or two hundred years ago. We have a place in society that is undeniable. We’re a force to be reckoned with;
But romantically things are starting to fall apart more and more – 50% of relationships END in divorce.
–Why is that?
Well, it’s because we have been playing just on a masculine level. Which means we’re going to have to go back to our feminine essence, and use dating methods like Mantourage Dating to tap back into our feminine nature. We need to allow ourselves to be wooed, to be courted to be loved, cherished, and adored, AND to do it on our own terms this time.
A few things that Mantourage Dating will do for you.
1. It’s going to help you avoid tunnel vision.
You’ll know when you lock in on that one guy.
That one guy but just blew you away romantically.
You can’t stop thinking about him.
You’re completely obsessed.
You can’t think and your work falls apart.
Your girlfriends fall away.
You neglect everything else that’s around you
And you feel like you’re a crazy lunatic trying to figure out if the two of you have a future together..
Mantourage Dating is going to help you with that because you’re finally going to have a place to focus your attention besides on that one man. We already learned that tunnel vision and putting all your attention on one guy doesn’t work out very well most of the time.
2. It’s going to give men the opportunity to be in their masculine energy around you.
You’re not trying to prove your worth to them, they’re going to feel your worth naturally.
By the way this won’t make you feel like a less capable woman. Actually, it makes you more capable of the things that are really important because you’re not wasting time trying to prove how capable you are to men. Plus you can tell if somebody is desperately trying to get attention by how much they’re trying to prove. You don’t have to do that when you’re Mantourage Dating.
3. It’s going to give you an opportunity to figure out what you really want in a man or in a romantic relationship, because you don’t have to commit quickly.
You don’t have to settle for whatever comes by. You’re going to see men in completely different light. You’re going to trust men. You’re going to be open to them, learn all the wonderful things that men bring to the table for us.
4. It’s going to give you the opportunity to create the love life of your dreams. You’re putting a high value vibe around you that says to men,
“I’m here. I’m here for love but I’m doing it in my own terms. I am not doing a half ass job and if you can’t step up to the plate, I can’t step up to the plate for you either.”
5. Mantourage Dating will change the rules of love in your favor which is why it’s easy to create magical dating experiences when you truly embrace this and allow yourself to experience everything it has to offer you.
6. You learn really good romantic boundaries with men.
I can’t tell you the amount, probably a good sixty to sixty five percent of women have really crappy boundaries with men – even ones that are already in a relationship. And it’s 100 percent hurting their romantic experiences.
7. My absolute favorite one is that you don’t have to live with romantic regrets.
You are going to give yourself a permission to create what you want and feel supported by the world; feel supported by the universe; feel supported by your higher power and allow yourself to fall in love.
So those barriers that Rumi was talking about start to dissolve. You’ll instead put up appropriate boundaries which are highly sexy. Plus you get to be everything and have everything that you want romantically without having to force the situation.
Sounds pretty good, huh?
Okay Lovergirl, thank you taking the time to find out a bit about Mantourage Dating. Mantourage Dating rocked my world and I know it can do the same for you.
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