3 Unusual Exercises Guaranteed to Jump Start Your Dating Adventures
This week is short (well kinda lol) and oh sooo sweet. I challenge each of you to try these 3 steps immediately to put a fire under your hot dating bunz.
Put on your Romantic Research Cap and then get started.
Each of these steps address a very important element to having your way with men. I am going to give you the premise and you are going to get creative with the exercise. (Hint: the more creative you get, the more fun and rewarding these exercises will be;)
1. Create a Mantourage:
Yep you read that correctly. If you want a legendary dating experience, then start with your Mantourage. That is dating more than one man at a time. 2 to 5 is a great place to start. For a short period I was talking to or actively dating 10 men. I’m not boasting, I just want you to know from experience that it was incredibly fun and exciting. Now warning, typically when you are dating more than one man and not hinting at exclusivity with any, one or more of the men will be drawn to ask you for exclusivity rather quickly. Stay in your zone, tell him you are not ready to be exclusive yet. He might get pissy about it, but if he is really someone worth keeping around he will stay around without you insisting.
Also to up the fun of this experience, be sure to journal about your adventures. This particular exercise will also give you amazing insight to what you really want from a man in an exclusive relationship or if you prefer to continue dating indefinitely. This is the best tool to learn or redefine exactly what you want.
A woman who knows what she wants is damn sexy to men.
2. Change your ring tone for each man you are dating to a song that reflects how you want him to feel about you:
Really simple, fun, make you feel giddy exercise that works like magic. Be creative here and only use songs that you really love. I know it sounds a little silly, but I’m not kidding, it works like magic 😉 Try it today!
Hot Tip: Turn your ringer on vibrate when you are on a date with another man. Men have crazy radar without knowing they have crazy radar, they will call while you are on your date.
3. Call an Emergency Girl Intervention and Adventure Infusion:
This is my favorite.
a) Get your girls together, the more the merrier. Married and the UnSingle invited as well! (Women only)
Pick a place in town that has a large amount of straight men. I highly recommend a place where you can dance.
c) The goal is to check out men, and find something you like about each one. Even the ones you normally wouldn’t be attracted to. The second part of this goal is to SHARE with them what you like about them.
d) I want you to observe how men will be drawn to & tripping over themselves to be around you and your girls. I want you to just enjoy and appreciate the attention.
Here’s the Twist:Men will be asking for your phone number. This is a night of appreciation and attention, so it’s a no phone number exchange. When he asks you for your number answer sweetly:
I’m not accepting phone numbers tonight, but I do want you to know how much I appreciate how handsome you are.
Smile, wink, and turn to your girls.
This will be an evening you and the girls will talk about for a long time to come. By the way, make sure you let your married and UnSingle gal pals do some of the chatting as well. Flirting is great for a relationship as long as it is within their comfort zone. Women thrive on being adored by men, even men they are not intimately connected to. This is a really great practice to do that and learn how to stay in the moment without jumping to expectations.
Remember my Romantic Explorers, be sure to post below your experiences and results with these techniques. (Did I also mention that your stories inspire other women to take a chance on creating their own epic dating adventures.) Do me a flavor, if you enjoyed these steps, then share them with your girls on Facebook & Twitter.
Here’s to your Dating and Romantic Pleasures!
