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The Truth: Should You Lose Weight Before You Start (Online) Dating

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“NO WAY! If he doesn’t like you the way you are, then tell him to SCREW OFF!”

The 2015 internet troll answer:
“%^$#@, even if you lose the weight, you’ll still need to do this, this and this you f$cking, fat c*nt!”

The real answer:
This 100 percent depends on you.

Let me explain:
As a dating expert and a curvy girl, whose weight has fluctuated her entire life, I know what it is like to date while being skinny and to date while being significantly overweight. So my answer might surprise you.

Here’s the skinny:
Your dating results will depend on how you feel about yourself, every single time.

Which means an overweight woman who clearly values herself, who celebrates & genuinely loves her curves, will get a lot more positive male attention than a skinny gal who clearly hates her body.

In fact, my own dating life pretty much sucked as a skinny and as an overweight chica because I hated myself so much.

Yet the moment I decided that it was too exhausting to carry around so much body-hate (body-hate functions like the tallest of brick walls around your heart; extraordinarily difficult to climb over and ridiculously hard to break through), and instead started to celebrate my body, men began leaping out of the woodwork and my dating life became magical.

Which means in order for me to answer your question, I must first ask you one.

Are you willing to stop chronically hating on your body before you start (online) dating?

If you can flip a switch and celebrate your curvy nature, then I say by all means put yourself out there Lady Love and enjoy lots of positive male attention.

BUT If you legitimately can’t turn those nasty voices off inside your head whatsoever, then I suggest you join me at so I can remove the ‘curse’ that is keeping extra weight on your body and insecurities that screw with your romantic confidence.

After you get in a habit of taking brilliant care of yourself uncovering your Happy Healthy and Hot daily (one or two months will work), then I want you to start putting yourself out there. Get current pictures of yourself and create an enchanting, but genuine, profile for online dating. Start dating!

Do this before you reach your goal weight. Why? Because it is so easy to put off life until you reach your goal weight. Yet life is still happening, and your dating life should be too. When you practice loving yourself, there will be incredible men to love you as well. They are only waiting for you to give them the opportunity by tearing down your body-hate walls.