#FairyDustTV Episode 29, How To Attract Men
You might think you aren’t the type of lady that men are easily attracted to. But you couldn’t be further from the truth. Let me show you how.
#FairyDustTV Video Transcript:
How to Attract Men
Before I jump deeply into today’s topic of how to attract men, I want you to know that it’s actually really easy. It’s like stupid easy!
But for years, I had no clue.
Many women get so stuck in their insecurities that they put blinders on and never see or acknowledge how many men are attracted to them.
I want you to know…
If you feel that you are too fat, too skinny, too short, too tall, even too strong of a woman… remember that those are just insecurities and they’re just like putting blinders on. If you step outside of your insecurities for a minute and start acknowledging the men around you (who are already attracted to you) and allow yourself to see their attraction, you will realize that men have a very eclectic version of attraction.
We get caught thinking that men are only attracted to Victoria’s Secret models.
That’s not the case at all.
Men like all different kinds of women (which is good for all of us). So, let’s get started on how to attract them.
No. 1 Be your fun, goofy, sexy, smart as hell, playful self
I want you to be your fun, playful, goofy quirky, silly self. I also want you to be your smart as hell and your sexy self, because when you put all those pieces together it’s sexy as hell. Personally, I think Victoria’s Secret models are gorgeous, but there are so many different versions of sexy. You don’t have to squeeze yourself into a size 0 or 2 in order to fit the description of sexy.
In fact, I just want you to cast that idea off to the side. Long term attraction and chemistry in relationships is based on your ability to be playful and to bring yourself to the table. (Not what you think he finds sexy)
That’s what he wants to see.
He wants you to be silly with him and to have fun with him. Women say that men don’t like strong, smart women and that’s bullshit. Of course they love strong, sexy women. So bring that to the table as well and don’t ever play to a smaller version of yourself to get his attention.
No. 2 Open up your options to other men
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Men like their women like they like high-dollar toys.
Something that all men want, but not just any man can have.
The only way you can create a high value vibe about you is if you have genuine options in men. Which says to him: “Hey, I don’t have to settle for whomever comes along. I get to choose who I really want to be in a relationship with because I have genuine options in great men so you better bring your A game”.
That’s the kind of vibe I want you to create. It’s extraordinarily seductive and attractive to men to high value men.
I teach something called Mantourage Dating™, which is essentially dating more than one man at a time until you find your forever man.
Sometimes, women misinterpret this as meaning she has to sleep with several men at the same time. NO! That’s not what that means at all, and in fact, that’s not what I’m saying.
If you choose to sleep with more than one man at a time, that is completely your business. And as long as you do it in integrity with yourself, nobody has any true platform to judge you. Still, I don’t want you to think that that’s what Mantourage Dating™ automatically means.
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Mantourage Dating™ is the perfect way to create a really high value vibe that says to him: “Hey, I have high quality options in men. Yes, I do want to be in a relationship. But it doesn’t mean I have to jump into one with you.”
Again ladies, you must open up your options to the other talent around you in order to create the vibe that men can’t resist.
No. 3 Don’t make it all about him.
Here’s the deal: we all know what most women do.
They meet a guy and before they’ve even discussed being in a relationship, she stops talking to all other men in her life and cast them aside because it’s all about him now. She’s so afraid that he might find out that she’s dating somebody else.
She doesn’t want to ruin her chances. She’s scared that he might get jealous and think that she’s a whore. I know we have been socialized to think these kinds of things and it’s time for you to just let it go.
When you make it all about that one guy, the rest of your life to fall apart. Most women stay up too late, thinking about him, texting/talking with him, making everything all about him. Their friends are neglected, their work is neglected, even their family sometimes is neglected and they start feeling totally crazy pants!
Why? Because they are not taking care of the things that are important to them; things that sustain them and ground them. All they’re doing is putting all of their energy towards him and when you do that, you actually start to push him away.
It’s a surefire way to kill attraction.
When you don’t make it all about him, you maintain your life, you take care of the pieces that are important to you and you don’t feel all crazy pants, important pieces of attraction start to happen.
You create that high value vibe that says: “I’d like to have you in my life but I’m not willing to let go of everything else because I am more than just a woman who wants to be in a relationship. I am so much more.” which is extraordinarily seductive to the right men.
Okay Lovergirl, you now have three very important and easy ways to attract men. Remember it is crazy easy to attract men. You just have to focus on yourself even more and then have a little fun with the guys.
Muah and Ciao!
Jenn
P.S.
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