Is he into you or is he just being nice? Wanna know how to find out Lovergirl?
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How to tell if a guy likes you
If I wanted, I could give you a laundry list of things that possibly indicate a guy’s interest in you. However, I’m not gonna do that because it’s a waste of your time and effort. I value your time and your romantic effort.
I want to do this topic a little bit differently. And instead give you a shortcut to get you to understanding whether or not a guy likes you.
No. 1 Assume that all men like you
You might be thinking: “But Jenn why in the hell would I do that? And what does that do anyways?”.
Specifically it changes your perception towards men and then you stop worrying whether or not he does like you. That worry can create all kinds of stress.
Here at HaveHimYourWay.com, we are about you becoming an adored woman.
An adored woman is one that assumes that all men like her.
This doesn’t mean that you have to have interactions with all men. It also doesn’t make you arrogant.
“Oh, I know you like me.”
“Ooh yeah, you definitely like me.”
“I know, you like me. I can just see it.”
That’s not what we’re talking about.
We’re talking about is changing your perception of men by making the assumption that men do like you. That way you can relax while dating. Then you give yourself permission to enjoy it more instead of worrying over whether or not this guy has any interest in you.
Just assume he does. Next, you can up your adored woman game.
Start flirting, having more fun and enjoying his company.
This is so much more seductive than the insecure energy of:
“Oh, I wanna know whether or not he likes me. What do I do? What does this mean?”
“Did he look at me when he did 360 circles around the parking lot? That must mean he likes me.”
Don’t drive yourself crazy.
Just assume he does. It is a no harm no foul situation. He doesn’t even have to know that you assume he likes you.
Nobody has to know.
This isn’t something you have to tell everyone about. It’s just a perception that you are taking on and you are enjoying. Of course he likes me.
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Which brings me to number 2. If there was one thing that you should know on that laundry list of things that might indicate a man’s interest, this is the one.
No. 2 If he tries to spend time, communicate, and connect more with you…
…there is a very strong possibility that this man likes you. It’s not 100% slam dunk but I’d say it’s a good 90 – 95% possibility that he does have interest in you.
No. 3 Ask him if he’s asking you out on a date
Here’s where things get a little convoluted and confusing in today’s dating landscape.
As much as we communicate, we are communicating in a very wishy-washy, no good way.
It is no good for your love life at all. So I want you to be the woman who forgoes all the wishy-washiness.
If a man asks you to hang out, be willing to ask him:
“Are you asking me out on a date?”
But Jenn I could never do that!
We’re gonna cut out all the wishy-washiness of ‘trying to figure out if a guy likes you’ because he asked you to go out somewhere or hang out, but he didn’t call it a date.
We’re gonna cut through the crap and determine if he has any romantic intentions with you.
That way, you are clear from the get-go what his intentions are.
If he says no, you’re not gonna lose it.
It’s not a big deal.
You know at some point, he’s gonna fall for you anyway;-) so no biggie.
It’s okay that he doesn’t think that it’s a date quite yet. Plus based on what he says, you get to make the decision whether or not you wanna go out with him as friends or not.
If you don’t, you don’t have to. It’s a win-win situation.
BONUS: if he DOES call it a date… Then you don’t spend hangout after hangout trying to determine whether this guy is interested in getting to know you romantically or not.
You don’t have to wonder when he puts his lips on you whether or not it’s gonna be a booty call at some point.
You’re setting it up. Cutting through all the wishy-washiness. Setting him up to date you versus just hang out with you and maybe get his hands down your pants.
See the difference?
VERY IMPORTANT: We adored women, we take things on our terms. We don’t have to play by the “new dating landscape.” (Which frankly sucks)
I want you to forgo all the wishy-washiness and be willing to be brave.
You can do this. It’s not gonna kill you even if he says “No, it’s not a date.”. You’re not going to die, I promise you.
But be willing to ask him:
“Are you asking me out on a date?”
Lovergirl, let’s quickly wrap up and review today’s topic:
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You
Forgo the laundry list. We don’t give a sh#t about the laundry list that might indicate whether a guy likes you or not.
- Assume that all men like you. Remember, you’re an adored woman. It’s very likely he does anyway.
- There’s a good chance if he’s trying to figure out ways to spend time with you, communicate with you and connect with you, there’s a very good chance that he does like you. That’s your one, your one indication I’ll give you–remember it’s a 90 to 95% chance.
- When he does ask to spend time with you, be willing to ask him if he’s asking you out on a date.
Here’s to you, having him your way.
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